Popular Funeral Songs

November 13, 2009 at 2:50 pm · Filed under About Us, Funeral Planning, Our Site, Products & Services Directory ·Tagged

 

 

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Soon the Product Gallery will contain the internet's largest collection of funeral songs

 

 

I’ve begun work on a new Music category for the Product Gallery. It is fantastic!  We’ve had special programming done to make it easy to add individual songs that link directly to Amazon.  Visitors to the Product Gallery’s Music category can click on any song and hear an introductory sample from the song. It’s so cool. It’s so easy to add songs! And most importantly,I believe that it will be a big  help to people researching the right song for the funeral, celebration of life, memorial ….whatever.

This Music category is sooo important. Art carries our hearts. The perfect poem, music or visual art is a big deal for these extraordinary events.  It feels fantastic to be able to put something together that we believe will really make a difference to people.

Yesterday I was researching Popular Funeral Songs and I spent hours listening to snipits from songs to refresh my memory of how each song goes. I imagined the pressure of having to plan a funeral in a short time and spending hours researching for music for the event. It would be exhausting and stressful. Hopefully, our new Music category will help people short-cut their research and easily consider a limited number of tunes.

What would really be wonderful is if this category could become  interactive, with people making suggestions on songs they used for memorial gathering.

We will make the Music category deep with many subcategories so people can search for songs about just about every conceivable relationship, songs from different cultures, of course different styles of music, instrumentals featuring specific instruments (just bagpipe songs, just flute songs, just piano, just harp…), patriotic songs, songs for pet loss….

Watch over the next weeks as the Music category grows!

The concern, as is our concern with the article library, is overwhelming people. We go back and forth about this a lot and always arrive at the same conclusion… more information is better than us screening just what we think is important or just what we like. The Music category will be huge.

So here it comes, the internet’s largest collection of music for funerals — the Product Gallery’s Music category!  – AC

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Casket conversion kits to honor Veterans

November 12, 2009 at 3:16 pm · Filed under Products & Services Directory ·Tagged

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The Jonathan Field Collections Marine Corp Casket Conversion Kit

A new vendor in the Product Gallery has come up with a smart way to convert any casket into a military casket. The Jonathan Field collection makes a high quality military accessories that could adorn any type of casket. Each kit contains the emblems of a specific branch of the military. They also make kits for Police and Firefighters.

Funeral planning for a veteran almost always includes some recognition of the years they served in the military. Jonathan Field’s casket conversion kits are a very classy way to acknowledge military service. – AC

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The Vets

November 5, 2009 at 2:49 pm · Filed under Products & Services Directory ·Tagged

 

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Veterans' Day Assembly at my daughter's Elementary School

 

My father-in-law served in the Philippines during WWII.  He was extremely lucky and has lots of stories about his experiences in the army.  Yesterday, my daughter’s elementary school had an assembly to honor veterans and the kids were encouraged to invite a veteran to the event. This is a new school for our family; we didn’t know what to expect.

The event was inspiring. Chet was given a star covered named tag that identified him as a veteran. The kids had made star necklaces that read, “Never Forget”.  The assembly was chock full of patriotic songs and presentations.

Toward the end, the student council vice president asked all the veterans to come onto the stage. I escorted Chet to the stage trying to avoid stepping on a the legs of the sprawling, but extremely well-behaved, elementary kids.  The crowd of kids and adults stood and applauded for a long time as we slowly moved to the risers.

Chet and the other vets were individually introduced and given a carnation.

On the way home, Chet told me he had never participated in any veteran event before.  I could hear the regret in his voice. He talks about his army experiences every day. I mean it. Everyday. His memory is failing but these 60-year-old memories are still strong.

Many people who served in the military feel the same way. This explains why there are so many military themed keepsakes  for veterans and their families. The Product Gallery contains the best collection of military caskets in the internet and we have around 15 flag cases for people to browse in the Product Gallery, but there are many more military themed keepsakes available that we’ll have to add in the near future.

- AC

 

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What are we afraid of?

November 5, 2009 at 2:53 am · Filed under death

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Why are we grossed out by death? Are we afraid of ghosts?

 

The New York Times recently ran an Op-Ed piece by a professor at Emery University about American funerals and the trend away from involving the body, a corpse,  in the funeral.  It’s true, most of us are totally grossed out by dead bodies and with the increasing cremation rate, more people are opting for a memorial gathering without the body or even the ashes in attendance.

At a Halloween party last week  friends were talking about the Phillipino custom of taking family pictures with a dead body. They thought this practice was bizarre. These people are progressive and thoughtful and they think it’s gross to be around a dead body. I remember as a child seeing a  embalmed body at a funeral and also thinking it was weird and gross.  Why?

Why do we rush to call 911 the minute someone dies. Get this dead thing out of here! Just moments before it contained our loved one.

Are we afraid death is contageous?

Are we afraid something scary will happen if we touch a dead body if we’re present with it. Maybe we’re scared of ghosts?

- AC


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Big Funeral Convention in Boston

October 29, 2009 at 1:41 pm · Filed under About Us, Funeral Planning, Our Site ·Tagged

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National Funeral Directors Association convention this week

The National Funeral Directors Association is holding it’s huge annual convention now in Boston. Thousands of funeral directors from all over the world attend this event.

There are hundreds of exhibitors displaying the latest ideas in funeral related products and services.  There are also industry suppliers  like companies that make embalming fluid and gurneys with often interesting displays at their booths.

I wonder, with the recession and the hurting auto industry,  will the limo companies will have their customary huge blocks of  booth spaces to display their shinny black long cars?

At some point in the future, we will return to the convention and set up our fancy booth that fits into a suitcase.  Right now there are many companies providing a directory of funeral homes, ours is free.  We just want to provide the content to site visitors.   As  TheFuneralSite.com grows  it is rising above the fray of other directory sites and now, we think,  is the leading funeral planning site. Leading because more and more people are coming out, looking at an increasing number of pages and staying on our site for 12 minutes — according to Alex.com, once people find TheFuneralSite.com, they stay longer than on our competitor’s sites. People are finding  answers and explore their funeral options on TheFuneralSite.com.  Whoo!

We offer the best funeral planning content on the internet.  We don’t care if it distracts people from shopping.

Our mission is to provide information for people planning funerals.

-AC

 

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Cremation by funeral pyre, now available in the USA

October 21, 2009 at 5:09 pm · Filed under Green Funerals/Burials, Home Funerals ·Tagged

Cremation by Funeral Pyre in Crestone, Colorado

Cremation by Funeral Pyre in Crestone, Colorado

Cremation by funeral pyre or “open-air cremation” is now available for a few people in the United States. We’ve just added an article on it in our Disposition Resource Center.

A funeral pyre is one of the world’s oldest cremation traditions. A body is placed upon a structure packed with flamable materials and ignighted.  The pyre is designed to burns at a very hot temperature in order to reduce a human body to a few pounds of ashes.  Pyres are used for the cremation in Hinduism & Sikhism. Vikings disposed of their dead with funeral pyres.

A group in Crestone, Colorado, the Crestone End of Life Project,  has done the research, obtained the necessary legal permissions and created a permanent cement pyre structure to perform around 12 “open-air cremations” a year.  At this time you must be a member of their community in order to proceed with an open-air cremation.  For more information contact the founder of the Crestone End of Life Project, Stephanie Gaines at (719) 588-7415.

A video tape of a cremation by outdoor funeral pyre shows a dignified procession of people placing a shroud wrapped body on top of a pyre. One by one, individuals placed juniper branches on top of the body. They approached the body similar to the way people do at a viewing. With somber deliberation each stepped forward to say good bye to their loved one by placing the juniper branch on top of the pyre. Some placed flowers on the heaping pile of juniper. At the conclusion of this procession, a huge pile of greenery and flowers rested on top of the cement pyre.

When lit, the pyre burst into flames. The group sang Christian songs and prayed; sometimes a cantor sang. As the sun set, the group remained to witnessed the pyre burn for hours. Some members occasionally placed additional wood on the fire. It was  a beautiful heart felt ceremony.

There is some controversy on how green this type of cremation is. There was a lot of smoke when the pyre was first ignighted. The narrator explained that this was caused by the fresh juniper branches.

Could funeral pyres be the next “hot” new thing in the funeral industry? Could they compete with green burial?  Probably not, I wonder how many people choose to witness a cremation at a regular crematory? I understand that there is more interest in witnessing this procedure and some crematorys have developed spaces for the family to observe the cremation. But I’d be surprized if there is much demand for this.

The more funeral options the better. I’m glad to hear that cremation by funeral pyre is happening in the USA and hope it becomes available in more locations  throughout the USA. It’s certainly not for everyone but for some it’s the perfect send off.  People should be allowed to honor their loved ones however they like.
-AC

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Ladies in White, a unique ash scattering service

October 20, 2009 at 3:38 am · Filed under Products & Services Directory, scattering ashes

The Ladies in White - ash scattering service in the wildlands of Montana

The Ladies in White - ash scattering service in the wild lands of Montana

Ladies in White  is yet another wonderful and unique option for people choosing cremation –  ashes scattered by hand in the mountains by a committed group of sincere women wearing all white. You know these women care. You can feel it from their website.  And you know they’ll strive to fulfill a family’s wishes on where and how the scattering is completed.

Here’s how they describe themselves:

Ladies in White, LLC, is a company of women that works to grant the final wishes of those who want their ashes returned to the earth at its most beautiful.  The Ladies are community members from all walks of life, and from a variety of faiths and perspectives.  They are business and professional women; tradeswomen, educators, healthcare workers, office workers and shop keepers; homemakers, mothers and grandmothers.  All are carefully selected for personal qualities of compassion and human understanding, and intensively trained for their work with Ladies in White.

The Ladies in White are now listing in the Product Gallery under Ash Scattering & More > Hiker.  Information about options like the Ladies in White is what makes thefuneralsite.com’s new Product Gallery so fantastic. People can easily view many funeral options. I can’t wait until the Gallery is packed full with 60 categories of information for people to browse.

- AC

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I Love My Mom

October 13, 2009 at 2:35 pm · Filed under About Us, Our Site, Why Funerals Matter, death ·Tagged

In the last week, two of my friends’ mothers died. Both women were in their mid-80s and had chronic illnesses. Yet, death is always a shock especially for these most intimate relationships.

Yesterday I spent most of the day with my extraordinary 85 year old mother-in-law,  Helen. She and Chet, my father-in-law, have been living in their own home without much help. But, we’ve noticed a decline.  Helen fell last week. We’re realizing that they need us now for daily tasks. We live 10 minutes away and have committed to being there to help every morning and every evening.

My mom, Grace, and Ella our oldest daughter

My mom, Grace, and Ella our oldest daughter

My mom is in her mid 70s and in better shape than I am. As corny and cliché as this sounds, the fact is, she’s my best friend. The thought that I will outlive her always causes me to tear up. Perhaps that impending loss, somewhere out there in my future has fueled my intense interest in the funeral industry and the creation of TheFuneralSite.com?

If I become an expert on funerals and how we pay tribute and memorialize our loved ones, will this help prepare me for the loss of my mom?  Do funerals help with the grief? Is there a better way to do this ritual so we can feel a little better or learn a little more?

All this is quite personal and not the usual subject of this blog, but it’s on my mind.

-Anna

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TheFuneralSite.com’s Product Gallery launches

October 12, 2009 at 12:58 pm · Filed under Our Site, Products & Services Directory

Product Gallery's Cremations Jewelry gallery page

Product Gallery's cremation Jewelry gallery page

The Product Gallery is a product-centric informational tool for browsing funeral and memorial products and services that are available for delivery anywhere in the United States.  It is designed to help people find the exact product or service they want for a funeral, memorial, or other end-of-life gathering.


The Funeral Product Gallery is not a store.  Vendors include their products in the Gallery for FREE and if people are interested in the product, they click through to the vendor’s own web site. The vendor pays a minimal amount for that click.

The Product Gallery launched in the fall of 2009 and will eventually include many, many categories of products and services.  We’re starting out with the basics – Caskets, Urns, Scattering Options, Keepsakes, Flowers, but just you wait! Soon you’ll see much more.
The Product Gallery will be the best place on the internet, actually anywhere, to easily find every conceivable funeral related product or service.
Take a look!
- Anna

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Urns from Salvaged Wood

October 11, 2009 at 2:36 pm · Filed under Green Funerals/Burials, Portland Funeral Guide, Products & Services Directory, Urns

We just added a new company into the Product Gallery Portland Natural Caskets. They sell wood caskets and urns made by hand. Portland Natural Caskets only delivers caskets to Washington and Oregon states, so their caskets are not in the Product Gallery, but their urns are. They have a listing for their caskets in their local funeral guide, www.portlandfuneralguide.com.

I was talking with Scott, the owner of Portland Natural Caskets, and he told me the artist who makes some of their urns stores logs he’s salvaged in his pond. The water prevents the logs from deteriorating.  When the artist is ready to begin a new urn project he literally jumps into the pond to pull up a log for the project. The urn are beautiful as you can see in the picture below. Each is made from a  single piece of wood.  David told me that it’s common to salvage wood from rivers and lakes near old lumber camps and mills. People can find excellent rare wood pieces of wood in perfect condition under the water.

Urn made from salvaged wood stored in a pond

Urn made from salvaged wood stored in a pond

We now have nearly 3,000 funeral related products and services in the Product Gallery.

I’m can’t wait until the Product Gallery is completely  filled out with every conceivable product and service available. I’m imagining around 40 major categories with hundreds of subcategories.

The Product Gallery will be the easiest way   to consider all options  and will be a great help to people trying to figure out what to do when funeral planning.  – Anna

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